I’m a 47 years old, Indian, from past 10 years and I’ve been mostly a Domme all my adult life. I am well dressed, assertive, polite, a gentle who holds the door open for you.

BDSM is a lifestyle for me. I love the feeling of control, knowing I’m in charge of the situation. In the bedroom, at work and all other aspects of my life.

Can I play rough and/ or be an asshole? Of course! Is it Dominance? No, it’s playing rough! It’s not about holding a whip, flogger, choking, spanking etc. alone. It´s about self control, self awareness and responsibility. I never demand submission. It’s freely given to me. After trust, safety, limits, communication build the base for a connection