In the BDSM scene and the kink community, this question is repeatedly discussed with great enthusiasm.

In general terms, the masochist finds sexual satisfaction from a feeling of pain, torment, and humiliation. He would like to be chastised with the whip, maltreated with vampire gloves (Blood Play) or harassed with electric shock.

A fetishist may also exhibit masochistic traits. However, the fetishist usually derives his sexual satisfaction from certain objects or body parts (high heels, socks, feet or breasts). Certain materials (nylon, rubber, latex or wool) also exert a magical effect on fetishists.

Sub means submissive and is a submissively (obedient) disposed person. A sub enjoys and loves the power imbalance of a top / bottom relationship. Many fetishists are submissive and get their sexual satisfaction in the varied game of dominance and submission with the mistress.