The most valuable thing you can give someone is your full attention. This time it's yours, however you want it.

I'm 41 and 5'6", with short brown hair going grey and a dad bod that's genuinely earned the name. It gets worked every day. Weights in the morning, then a 20 to 30 mile bike ride, often two. I'm well groomed and always arrive fresh. I'm based in Worcestershire, I'm in London regularly, and I'll travel anywhere in the UK. I'm bisexual, and I see women, men and couples.

My eyes are the thing people notice. One's green and one's blue. Get close enough and you're welcome to stare until you've worked out which is which.

I'm well educated and well read, with a long career in finance and business. I've sat in plenty of boardrooms and seen a fair bit of life, so conversation is never a problem. The news, the book you're reading, whether those shoes work with that dress. I'm happy anywhere on that scale.

What time with me can look like

Out and about. A plus-one at a work do or wedding, a dinner date, or a day's shopping with someone who actually has an opinion. I love new experiences. Recently that's meant Glyndebourne, Matilda, an anniversary screening of Jurassic Park and a drag show based on David Attenborough. A last-minute flamenco show in Barcelona? I'm in.

The good man. Sometimes you just want looking after. I'll cook you dinner, pour the wine, do the washing up, or fix the thing that's been bothering you for months. In an outfit of your choice, if you like.

One to one. We all have a role we'd like someone to play. The attentive boyfriend. The older man who takes charge and looks after you. Or, for the right woman, the cheeky younger man who can't quite believe his luck ; ) And if what you really need is someone who listens properly while you say what you've been holding in, I'm very good at that too.

Massage. I bring my own massage table, so you get a proper, slow, full-body massage at home or in your hotel. Warm oil, clean towels, no clock-watching. It can stay a massage or turn into something more. Your call.

Intimacy and kink. I'm very happy to take care of your sexual needs, whatever shape they take. Giving or receiving discipline, roleplay, the fantasy you've never said out loud. I have outfits, including latex, and I can bring toys. You're welcome to bring your own too. Safe means we agree limits first, use a safe word, keep toys clean or covered, check for allergies including latex, and always leave time for aftercare.

Content. I love making content with other creators, whether that's filming together or sharing each other's work. If you'd like something private made just for you, tell me what you have in mind. And if you're newer to this, a mature man who'll take it at your pace might be exactly what you're after. Everything is agreed in advance, and nothing is shared without everyone's consent.

A few things I've done

Walked a woman through the park so her ex could see she could still turn a younger man's head. She went home with her confidence back.

Turned up as the vicar for someone who'd carried that fantasy for years.

Been the easy, confident company at work conferences.

What I am and what I'm not

I'm not a 25-year-old gym model. I'm a real man with a real body, and I pay attention. Very little shocks me. I keep things protected.

How booking works

Outcalls only, to your home or a hotel. If you'd like a hotel, we can sort the arrangements together. I don't have reviews on here yet, so I ask for a short video call before we meet. It confirms we're both who we say we are, and it gives you a feel for me first. If it's your first time with an escort, just tell me. We'll talk it through, with no pressure.

Message me here to start.